Where the line is either ignored or not drawn

You see, every relationship is built on trust. The one I am talking about is the romantic one. You know, the one you think you have but I bet you do not have. Before I get into today's article, answer this question, if you had your partner's phone password(s), would you still be in that relationship? If you thought about it, grab a seat this one is for you. 

Now, how well do you know your partner? Sure yo dumb ass thinks that because he gives you fire strokes and you know his favorites food is ugali and nyama choma but tell me which guy does not like the two.  Take your time, I'll wait. You guy my, what does mamaaz like? Ama wewe unajua tu ice cream na dicklofenac? What is her shoe size? What are her goals? Does she know why Putin invaded Ukraine? Baby girl, does your guy know why the results of the last US elections was Joe Biden?

To build trust requires to have communication. Talk to each other about stuff. Lemme ask you this, if your current relationship were to end, what would you loose? There are some things that can really mess up a relationship. Take a case of yansh. Most men like yansh and will look at yansh if yansh passes by. Quite literally, the greater the mass, the greater the force of attraction. Now, you guy my guy you are with your boo boo walking and you look and even perhaps turn to look at it. This will make your girl insecure about herself and doubts will arise, followed by questions, followed by break up

One rule I have is that, if there is an issue that is bothering you/ something I did that you did not like, speak up there and then or forever hold your peace. Tyrese Gibson once said, I am not responsible for your previous heartbreaks. Stop carrying emotional luggage into another relationship. Take your time to heal. Work on yourself, then move on. Nobody likes to be compared to someone's ex. 

Lastly, YOUR PARTNER'S FRIENDS ARE NOT YOUR FRIENDS. WACHANA NAO. Does this one need explanation? think about it. On that note, your partner's friends will never hit on you unless you are the side piece. 

Wacha nifke nahapa tutapatana nkirudi.

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